{"id":59164,"date":"2026-01-22T04:30:33","date_gmt":"2026-01-22T04:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/?p=59164"},"modified":"2026-01-20T15:24:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T15:24:42","slug":"optimistic-aging-facing-changes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/2026\/01\/optimistic-aging-facing-changes.html","title":{"rendered":"Optimistic Aging: Facing Changes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-59165\" src=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"optimistic aging\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-610x813.jpg 610w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Happy Thursday&#8230;.cataract surgery day for me!&nbsp; So, it seems fitting to write about <strong>Optimistic Aging: Facing Changes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The posts I have been writing on optimistic aging are merely to keep us focused on the positive as we march into our second half of life&#8230;which means we are all facing changes.<\/p>\n<p>Last week, a woman in a salon commented that cataract surgery made her feel old.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that I am going through this today does not &#8220;make me feel old&#8221; at all.<\/p>\n<p>Individuals of all ages go through challenges to their eyesight, and I am so looking forward to getting the blurry vision out of my life.<\/p>\n<p>Hope in this change is what I have&#8230;never have I thought of it as a part of old age.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I rarely think of myself as old.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We are the ones that give an experience or a change the power to &#8220;make&#8221; us feel a certain way.&nbsp; We control those feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I spent too much time lamenting over the loss of two toes. And I do not wish to waste time like that ever again.<\/p>\n<p>I choose to look for the silver lining as I age and hope you will join along.<\/p>\n<p>So, let&#8217;s look at another challenge I am currently facing.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>OPTIMISTIC AGING: FACING CHANGES &#8211; TIME FOR A NEW PATH<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-59167\" src=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-3-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"optimistic aging\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-3-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-3-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-3-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-3-610x813.jpg 610w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-3.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Regular readers here know that I have really enjoyed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.osteostrong.me\/\"><strong>OSTEOSTRONG<\/strong> <\/a>and believe it has helped me so much with bone strength, posture, and healthy strength training.<\/p>\n<p>So, you can imagine my disappointment when notified that the local franchise had decided to close.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, today is the last day it is open&#8230;last week was my last time.<\/p>\n<p>It was a jolt because I saw myself going to this place the rest of my life&#8230;.to maintain bone strength and avoid osteoporosis.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But, Optimistic Aging tells me to get back on the strength training horse and not spend time lamenting.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I must wait until I am past recovery on my cataract surgery&#8230;but then I have a plan.<\/p>\n<p>Meet Penny!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-59172\" src=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging.-Penny-1024x829.png\" alt=\"optimistic aging\" width=\"1024\" height=\"829\" srcset=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging.-Penny-1024x829.png 1024w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging.-Penny-300x243.png 300w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging.-Penny-768x622.png 768w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging.-Penny-610x494.png 610w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging.-Penny.png 1376w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Penny was one of my trainers at OsteoStrong and she worked me hard&#8230;.she is also an aspiring author with a fiction book soon to release.<\/p>\n<p>She has signed up to be a trainer through the YMCA where I do cardio, so I plan to hire her to train me in strength training when I am ready.&nbsp; She is on board!<\/p>\n<p>What I want to do for her right now, is encourage you<strong> to vote for her on January 26<\/strong> to win a contest at <em>Ms. Health and Fitness Magazine.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It was exciting when they selected her as one of the finalists.<\/p>\n<p>Please go to <a href=\"https:\/\/mshealthandfit.com\/2026\/penny-vieau\"><strong>THIS LINK<\/strong><\/a> and you can also read more about Penny&#8217;s commitment to fitness on this page.<\/p>\n<p>Penny is also going to be joining me here and on Instagram with fitness tips for us.&nbsp; I am very excited to share her expertise with everyone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-59168\" src=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-852x1024.jpg\" alt=\"optimistic aging\" width=\"852\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-852x1024.jpg 852w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-250x300.jpg 250w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-768x923.jpg 768w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-1278x1536.jpg 1278w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-1704x2048.jpg 1704w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-4-610x733.jpg 610w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 852px) 100vw, 852px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I still highly recommend OsteoStrong if there is one in your area&#8230;.and what I recommend the most, because it has helped me so much, is <strong>Strength Training<\/strong>&#8230;however you choose to do it.<\/p>\n<p>And, it is never too late to begin.&nbsp; I began at age 60 when I was about to enter into osteopenia territory.<\/p>\n<p>But, I do encourage you to have assistance with a trainer or class leader&#8230;<em>you can easily be injured if you do not have guidance.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Strength training has saved many a hip from breaking and that is what motivates me the most.&nbsp; Both of our mothers (Mr. B and me) had broken hips.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>OPTIMISTIC AGING: FACING CHANGES: HOPE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-59166\" src=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"optimistic aging\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-610x813.jpg 610w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Optimistic-Aging-Facing-Changes-2-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I will most likely be home after the first eye surgery by the time you read this.<\/p>\n<p>And I would like to encourage you to join me to <strong>FIND HOPE IN EVERY CHANGE.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do not give disappointment or discouragement a foothold to zap your life away from you.<\/p>\n<p>Do not give anything the power to MAKE you feel old.&nbsp; We have so much living to do.<\/p>\n<p>Find the hope&#8230;the silver lining&#8230;they are there&#8230;and live with purpose and joy&#8230;yes, one day at a time.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for joining me today for Optimistic Aging: Facing Changes&#8230;.I will be here tomorrow with a post I wrote prior to surgery.<\/p>\n<p>Hope you will join me and VOTE PENNY&#8230;until then&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>EMBRACE TODAY &amp; KEEP SMILING!!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>BY PAMELA LUTRELL<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>For all your shopping, please use the links on my&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/shop\" target=\"_self\">SHOPPING PAGE<\/a>\u2026thank you, thank you to all who shop this way and show support for this blog.&nbsp; It means the world.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58795\" src=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/over50feeling40-logo-1.png\" alt=\"optimistic aging\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/over50feeling40-logo-1.png 500w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/over50feeling40-logo-1-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/over50feeling40.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/over50feeling40-logo-1-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Thursday&#8230;.cataract surgery day for me!&nbsp; So, it seems fitting to write about Optimistic Aging: Facing Changes. The posts I have been writing on optimistic aging are merely to keep us focused on the positive as we march into our second half of life&#8230;which means we are all facing changes. 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